We accept the love we think we deserve.

I really, really don’t understand some girls attraction to guys that ‘molly coddle’ them. Ok so it’s a little harsh on guys because most believe girls like to be ‘treated like a princess’ but quite frankly I don’t. Well I’m not sure if it’s whether I don’t want to or because I’m simply not used to it and therefore, don’t like it. I’m a girl who loves her space and so I like to be treated with such. Us girls are always moaning about the ‘games’ guys play but to be honest, we play them just as bad. Truth is, I’ve been screwed over many a time and so for a guy to be at my beckon call and doing everything possible to please me is alien and therefore makes me uneasy. This is about as personal as I’ll get on my blog but recently I had a chance to be truly, truly happy with a most amazing guy who deserved someone so much better than me. I was spoilt. I wasn’t used to it. I was a fool but at the end of the day, what will be, will be. I’m used to not getting replies to my messages for hours and not being called pet names and although I complain – that’s how I like it. It keeps me interested. Sure, there’s a happy medium but not many guys know how to find that with me – they really do have their work cut out. But I’m sorry, for a guy to declare his love for me on facebook or post mushy crap on his blog, he’s either an absolute sap or he is trying to get rid of me, if the latter, just say so and spare me the shit.